Times change and with it the generations, their beliefs, behaviors and lifestyles. Something that seems to be affecting young men the most these days is porn. These days, pornography is widely available on websites like www.maturesexmovies.xxx, though many people have begun questioning the psychological effect that it can have on people.
Guys believe that porn is educational, that watching it gives them information about how sex really is, how it should be and how to be better at it, while in fact porn provides the absolute opposite. These guys would be much better off spending some time with one of the many beautiful Amsterdam escorts.
Everything about porn is fake, from the script and action to the people themselves. The moaning isn’t real, the novelty isn’t real, the bodies aren’t real and even the pleasure is near to zero if not painful.
“Sports is to war as pornography is to sex.” – Jonathan Haidt
Porn often has nothing to do with real sex and intimate relationships. This is especially the case in many www.cartoonporno.xxx films, which are often oversexualized to stretch the imagination beyond the realm of reality. In many porn story lines, women are treated aggressively, they are forced and it’s not about their desires, it’s about what the man wants and how – regardless of the way she feels about it. That doesn’t sound right, does it?
Relationships are about understanding, mutual respect, compromise, love, care, emotional connection and putting your partner’s needs before yours. What much of porn teaches people is nothing close to that.
A number of ex-porn stars report that they were abused, drugged to numb the pain, forced to work and pushed into doing things they did not want. We don’t often hear them say, “Being a porn star gave me a great feeling of self worth.”
On the contrary, porn can destroy one’s self-image, not to mention the huge psychological burden of how porn stars are viewed by family members, loved ones and society.
I believe there is nothing to be learned from porn and nothing good comes from it. When porn becomes addictive, it is not something to be taken lightly.
Over the past few years, science has proven that porn can be addictive, just like cocaine and heroin. Porn taps into the neurological pathway. When you view porn, the pleasure hormone known as dopamine is released.
By consuming it over and over again, a chemical called Delta-FosB creates an involuntary pathway that can push the user to be dependent on porn, which hacks the reward system and can lead to addiction. This results in a messed up dopamine sensitivity, hence throwing the reward circuitry off balance.
Recent scientific evidence also links overly frequent porn usage to erectile dysfunction over the long run. It can also result in depletion of social life, loss of productivity, misinterpretation of “intimacy” and misunderstanding of one’s sex life, not to mention the risks to your interpersonal relationships.
Something to think about next time you are… bored.
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