It’s exciting for all of us women to be in a new relationship, but that results in you sometimes not paying attention that you might be with the wrong guy, aka the jerk. Yes, these guys are nothing but bad news for you and we’d recommend you stay away from them! Here’s how you can identify a jerk:
1. He’s Self-Centered
It’s good to be with a man who loves himself and is confident, but when it’s a bit too much, that’s when you need to worry about it. Does he talk about himself all the time? He mentions he wants to do this and that, talks about his amazing qualities nonstop, you get the picture, right?
2. Finishing a Sentence
He barely let’s you finish a sentence when it’s finally your turn to talk and interrupts you whenever something bumps into his head. If it happens sometimes, then it’s fine you can let it pass, but if it’s something he does regularly, then you need to have a talk with him.
3. On Hold
Sometimes guys assume we’re on hold for them, like there’s nothing better for us to do other than leaving everything behind and being there for them. Well, it’s good to be there when he needs you, but when he’s the kind of guy who expects you to throw everything and answer his call to be there for him like NOW, then he fits pretty much fits the criteria of being self-centered.
4. Look at that Bootie
Picture this, you’re on a date with Mr. X and he can’t stop looking at girls walking around and makes comments about their bodies. What you need to do? Run for your life. That’s a big sign that guy is a jerk!
5. He’s Cheap
We’re not saying men should pay every time we go out with them, but they should at least offer, shouldn’t they? Well, if he doesn’t especially if you’re out on a date, then that’s really not a good sign of a great future together. It’s the gesture that counts…
6. You Find Your Way Home
If Mr. X doesn’t really care how you’re making your way to a destination, where you’re supposed to meet up with him or how you’re going back home and he doesn’t even offer a ride every once in a while, then chances are he’s not man enough.
7. Phone Calls
When he doesn’t call that often and when he finally does, it’s just because he needs something from you.
8. Attention to Detail
He’s not that big on paying attention to you, things you talk about, your emotions and is way too blunt? Give him a warning sign, if he doesn’t get better than this will never change!
9. No Compliments
Compliments are best when they are sincere, but when Mr. X only focuses on the negatives and doesn’t even care to let you know that you’re looking good today, then he’s not worth it. AT ALL!
10. Promises Promises!
He blabbers all the time, promises but never delivers? This could be a serious sign, he’s not the person you’ll be able to depend on…
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